Hi. I'm Mort
Fertel,
creator of Marriage Fitness.
I've been where you're at and I have answers for you. Before I share
with you how to deal with your bad marriage
(below), I want to offer you FREE help and a FREE marriage assessment.
No strings attached.
All you have to do is sign-up in the box to the right and I'll email
you both.
After your free sign-up, you'll go to a web page that'll explain
further how I can help you with your bad marriage.
One of the questions I'm most frequently asked is, “How do
you know when it's time to quit?” If your marriage is in
rough shape and you’ve been trying to make it work for a
while, you’ve probably asked yourself this question as well.
You always have the option to
call it quits. But once you pull that trigger, it's over. No more
chances. Your life will never be the same. Do you have kids? If you do,
their life will never be the same. You don't ever want to look back and
wonder if things could have been different.
If you have to end a bad
marriage, you want to know DEEP IN YOUR HEART that you did everything
you could to make it work. You want to be able to move on with your
life and into another relationship with a clear head. You want to come
to a place of healthy “completion.” THIS IS
CRUCIAL! And to accomplish this, in my experience, it takes at least
one year. I know it probably seems like a long time, but it's an
investment in the rest of your life. Obviously, it's worth the effort
if you turn your marriage around. But if you don't, it will NOT have
been a wasted year.
The work I do with marriage
coaching clients sometimes turns out to be more beneficial for them in
their next relationship than in their current one. I remember once when
the marriage of someone who registered for the Lone Ranger track of the
Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp
ended in the middle of the program. This man asked me if he should
continue with the final 3 weeks of the program. I said,
“Absolutely.” He responded, “Why? What's
the point? My marriage is not just bad- it’s over.”
“You're not doing it
for this marriage,” I explained. “You're doing it
for the benefit of your next one.”
Now don't get me wrong. I'm
not saying that your intention while you're working on your marriage
should be for the benefit of your life after your marriage. Your
intention needs to be to restore your CURRENT relationship. Chances are
you can still save your marriage, even if things are currently in a bad
state of affairs. But if you fail, your effort will NOT have been for
naught. I have seen too many cases of spouses ending their marriage
prematurely, and as result of not reaching
“completion” in one relationship, they find
themselves in a bad situation a few years later with someone else.
If your relationship is going
from bad to worse as you read this, then listen carefully. The bottom
line is- It's NEVER too late! In fact (and here's real food for
thought), very often the turning point in a marriage is when a couple
hits rock bottom. Sometimes it's not until things get that bad that
they can get better.
Do you want more FREE advice and a FREE marriage
assessment? No strings attached. All you have to do is sign-up in the
box to the right and I'll email you both. After the free sign-up,
you'll go to a web page that'll explain further about an alternative to
marriage counseling.
.
I've
been where you're at and I have answers for you. I'll explain more in a
moment. Do the free sign-up and I'll see you on the next web page.
Warm regards,
Mort Fertel
Author of Marriage
Fitness
Marriage Coach
Marriage Fitness with Mort Fertel
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