Hi. I'm Mort
Fertel, creator of Marriage
Fitness.
I've been where you're at and I have answers for you. Before I share
with you some marital advice (below), I
want to offer you FREE help and a FREE marriage assessment. No strings
attached.
All you have to do is sign-up in the box to the right and I'll email
you both.
After your free sign-up, you'll go to a web page that'll explain
further how you can get tons of marital advice.
It has been said that in this
day and age, fifty percent of all marriages are expected to end in
divorce. What a depressing statistic for today’s newlyweds to
contemplate! This threat becomes even more real as the pressures of
careers, mortgages, and children begin to compound existing marital
problems. When this happens, is there any marital advice that
can turn around a strained relationship?
Yes! There are things you can
do that will have an immediate and positive effect on your marriage! Let me share with
you one extremely effective piece of marital advice, what I refer to as
the art of GIVING.
Do you remember when you fell
in love, how it was easy to give to your spouse? Remember surprising
your spouse with something you knew they wanted? You probably enjoyed
thinking up new ways to express how you felt through your giving.
Guess what, the act of GIVING
still holds wondrous powers (even if you are currently experiencing a
marital crisis). Take a moment to reflect upon how this simple action
has positively affected your relationship in the past. Then consider
this marital advice: WITHIN THE NEXT 48 HOURS, give your spouse a gift.
Now here's the key. It can't
be just any gift. Your spouse has to feel YOU in it. You see, the most
important part of a present is that it embodies the presence of the one
who gave it to you. This is not a matter of money, but it does takes
time, thought, and energy. What gift would tickle the soul of your
spouse? Don't just buy anything. Make sure it is in your spouse's
favorite color, made in their hometown, or something they mentioned
last week.
Much of today’s
marital advice concentrates on the couple and how to fix their marital problems.
My advice differs in that I ask you to focus not on your problems, but
on truly connecting with your significant other through LOVING ACTIONS.
You see, inside your spouse is a child that wants to be understood. If
your spouse is like most people, he/she does NOT feel
understood…even by you. When you get the right gift for your
spouse, they will feel UNDERSTOOD, and connected to you, the giver.
When you give someone a gift that says, “I know you, I
understand you,” you can “melt” them.
This takes some deep thought,
but I guarantee that if you make a habit of this kind of giving it will
TRANSFORM YOUR
MARRIAGE. What could you give your spouse that would make
them glow and look at you with intense appreciation? Did they recently
mention they wanted something? What's your spouse’s favorite
dessert? Favorite flower? Favorite spot for a romantic retreat?
Favorite sports team (tickets to a game)? Invest some time and thought
into this act of giving and watch your marital situation turn around!
Take my advice, marital bliss CAN be achieved through small, meaningful
actions such as giving the right gift. Here is your opportunity to
discover the one gift that will change the momentum of your marriage.
Not certain as to which present will help improve your marital
situation? The Marriage Fitness program will help you discover which
gift is the right one (plus provide great advice on how to get your
spouse TO WANT to give that gift TO YOU too). In the words of Ralph
Waldo Emerson, “The only gift is a portion of
thyself.” Enjoy the gift of giving. It'll give YOU love.
I have much more FREE advice
for you and a FREE marriage assessment. No strings attached. All you
have to do is sign-up in the box to the right and I'll email you both.
After the free sign-up, you'll go to a web page that'll explain further
about an alternative to marriage counseling.
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I've
been where you're at and I have answers for you. I'll explain more in a
moment. Do the free sign-up and I'll see you on the next web page.
Warm
regards,
Mort
Fertel
Author
of Marriage
Fitness
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Coach
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