Hi. I'm
Mort Fertel, creator of Marriage Fitness.
I've been where you're at and I have answers for you. Before I
share with you some marital advice (below), I
want to offer you FREE help and a FREE marriage assessment. No
strings attached.
All you have to do is sign-up in the box to the right and I'll
email you both.
After your free sign-up, you'll go to a web page that'll explain
further how you can get tons of marital advice.
It has
been said that in this day and age, fifty percent of all marriages
are expected to end in divorce. What a depressing statistic for
today’s newlyweds to contemplate! This threat becomes even more
real as the pressures of careers, mortgages, and children begin
to compound existing marital problems. When this happens, is there
any marital advice that can
turn around a strained relationship?
Yes! There
are things you can do that will have an immediate and positive
effect on your marriage! Let me
share with you one extremely effective piece of marital advice,
what I refer to as the art of GIVING.
Do you
remember when you fell in love, how it was easy to give to your
spouse? Remember surprising your spouse with something you knew
they wanted? You probably enjoyed thinking up new ways to express
how you felt through your giving.
Guess what,
the act of GIVING still holds wondrous powers (even if you are
currently experiencing a marital crisis). Take a moment to reflect
upon how this simple action has positively affected your relationship
in the past. Then consider this marital advice: WITHIN THE NEXT
48 HOURS, give your spouse a gift.
Now here's
the key. It can't be just any gift. Your spouse has to feel YOU
in it. You see, the most important part of a present is that it
embodies the presence of the one who gave it to you. This is not
a matter of money, but it does takes time, thought, and energy.
What gift would tickle the soul of your spouse? Don't just buy
anything. Make sure it is in your spouse's favorite color, made
in their hometown, or something they mentioned last week.
Much of
today’s marital advice concentrates on the couple and how to fix
their marital problems.
My advice differs in that I ask you to focus not on your problems,
but on truly connecting with your significant other through LOVING
ACTIONS. You see, inside your spouse is a child that wants to
be understood. If your spouse is like most people, he/she does
NOT feel understood…even by you. When you get the right gift for
your spouse, they will feel UNDERSTOOD, and connected to you,
the giver. When you give someone a gift that says, “I know you,
I understand you,” you can “melt” them.
This takes
some deep thought, but I guarantee that if you make a habit of
this kind of giving it will TRANSFORM
YOUR MARRIAGE. What could you give your spouse that would
make them glow and look at you with intense appreciation? Did
they recently mention they wanted something? What's your spouse’s
favorite dessert? Favorite flower? Favorite spot for a romantic
retreat? Favorite sports team (tickets to a game)? Invest some
time and thought into this act of giving and watch your marital
situation turn around!
Take my
advice, marital bliss CAN be achieved through small, meaningful
actions such as giving the right gift. Here is your opportunity
to discover the one gift that will change the momentum of your
marriage. Not certain as to which present will help improve your
marital situation? The Marriage Fitness program will help you
discover which gift is the right one (plus provide great advice
on how to get your spouse TO WANT to give that gift TO YOU too).
In the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson, “The only gift is a portion
of thyself.” Enjoy the gift of giving. It'll give YOU love.
I
have much more FREE advice for you and a FREE marriage assessment.
No strings attached. All you have to do is sign-up in the box
to the right and I'll email you both. After the free sign-up,
you'll go to a web page that'll explain further about an alternative
to marriage counseling.
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I've been
where you're at and I have answers for you. I'll explain more
in a moment. Do the free sign-up and I'll see you on the next
web page.
Warm regards,
Mort Fertel
Author of
Marriage Fitness
Marriage Coach
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