Hi.
I'm Mort
Fertel, creator of Marriage
Fitness.
I've been where you're at and
I have answers for you. Before I share with you an important marriage
renewal tip (below), I want to offer you FREE help and a FREE marriage
assessment. No strings attached.
All you have to do is sign-up
in the box to the right and I'll email you both.
After your free sign-up, you'll go to a web page that'll explain
further how you can help you fix your marriage.
Now here's some advice for
starters.
Are you and your spouse
struggling to fix your marriage? Perhaps trying to deal with your
troubles is not just affecting you, but your family life as well. If
you keep trying but can’t seem to get anywhere, then maybe
you are putting in too much effort doing the wrong things.
Don’t let yourself and your family suffer without solutions
any longer. You need to start investing your precious time and energy
in actions that will turn your marriage around. It could be as simple
as stepping away from the problems, and getting more involved in your
spouse’s life.
When I say you need to
“get more involved” with your spouse, I mean that
you should find a way to get involved in an interest of theirs. Getting
involved in your spouse’s interest works wonders for your
marriage, no matter what their interest may be.
Consider this analogy with a
father whose son developed a passion for baseball. One summer he took
his son to see every major league team play one game. Their travels
took the entire summer and cost a lot of money, but it did wonders for
their relationship. Upon their return the father was asked,
“Do you like baseball that much?”
“No,” he replied. “But I like my son that
much.”
The action of getting INVOLVED
helped this father and son bond, and the same principle works within
your marriage. Getting involved will recreate the love and connection
in your relationship, giving you a foundation to safely address your
marital issues.
In the Marriage Fitness
Tele-Boot Camp™, I work with you to find meaningful ways for
you and your spouse to get involved in each others lives. Once you find
those ways (and we always do!), it's like magic.
Think about it. How could you
get more involved in your spouse’s life? Getting involved
does not necessarily mean that you have to do the activity together. It
could mean that you watch the activity, plan for it, pack for it,
budget for it, buy supplies for it, or research it in preparation for
discussion. How you get involved depends on you, your spouse, and the
interest. There are endless possibilities. The goal is to GET INVOLVED
in some way so your spouse's interest becomes part of your life too.
The chances are good that
your spouse's interest doesn't interest you. If it did, you would
probably already be involved. This exercise is challenging in that
regard. It takes discipline. Investments and sacrifices are necessary
within your marriage (and for your family) in order for you to reap the
benefits. It's not an exercise in choosing compatibility; it's an
exercise in CHOOSING LOVE. Your interest in your spouse's interest is
irrelevant. Your interest in your marriage is the key.
Just as getting involved in
your spouse’s interests will work wonders for your marriage,
the same action will positively affect the rest of your family. Think
about it for a minute- how could being more involved benefit your
family relationships? It makes sense that couples who are really
connected will be better equipped to parent, with more energy to give
to their children. Becoming more involved allows you to connect,
discover, and respond better to the needs of both your marriage and
your family.
I have much more FREE advice for you and a FREE
marriage assessment. No strings attached.
Sign-up
in the box to the right and I'll email you both. After the free
sign-up, you'll go to a web page that'll explain further about an
alternative to marriage counseling.
.
I've
been where you're at and I have answers for you. I'll explain more in a
moment. Do the free sign-up and I'll see you on the next web page.
Warm regards,
Mort
Fertel
Author
of Marriage
Fitness
Marriage
Coach
Marriage
Fitness with Mort
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